Change is not always good..

What good is change if it doesn't make you happy ?! Or if its not happiness that u seek, then why change ? Coz isn't being happy most important ?

Why do people these days constantly think about the way they look, the way they are, the region or case or creed they belong to, their status and especially what opinion others form about them. But why is it important ?!

Ok here is what made me ponder over this issue.
I have a friend and she is a lil fat. And she has no problem with it and I totally love that about her. But when one of the guys from my class commented something highly annoying about her, she wished she had some control over herself. And that's when I enter :D I know, am more the irritating type (and I especially like irritating her :P), but I really had to have a mature talk with her to make her feel secure about herself. And I did but it took a lot of patience on my side. And I think it was unnecessary because she was happy (and still is). When she gets no depressing thoughts about being over weight or any insecure feelings, then she is better off being that way. Why should anyone bug her to lose her weight ?! Especially her mom :|

Here, I can relate myself to it, but its just the opposite with 
me :P Am under weight. Well not really :P But everyone 
thinks so :| I have no issues with it and even my mom's 
occasional lectures have no effect on me. Coz I love myself. 
I love the way I am. And I don't see any reason why I should 
put on weight for someone else's happiness (or euphoria 
where my mom is concerned :P).

All am saying is, if u do not have a problem being the way you 
are, then get a life and stop obsessing about what other 
people perceive you as. Forget the society. You are not 
committing a crime by being fat or dark or belonging to some 
low caste or religion. If you do change yourself and be accepted by others, does that achievement make you feel proud ?! Is it even an achievement ?! 

But if you DO want to change, not for the sake of society but because for once u wanna be slim, then you can always do it :-) Nothing is ever impossible. And losing weight is just a piece of cake (oh but do avoid cakes and other tempting desserts plz :P). And for all those people who believe that they are doing it coz they want to and are still unsuccessful, they are just not interested. Its not effort that one needs. Its the intentions that matter. 

And all those people who think its fun to make fun of others, know that you are not perfect yourself. And of course, people who take offense in those comments are responsible for the 
fun those bastards have. Ignore the losers. Be yourself. Be the way YOU want !

Finally !!

Well it took real long for me to make this blog. Like everyone, I faced the same problems. Laziness, procrastination, not finding a good enough name, being very selective when others tried helping me :P and so on.. I made this blog nearly 3 months ago. But the cycle of problems repeated when it was time for my introductory boring post :P

As am already bored, I might as well have some fun boring others too :P

Hmm.. I created this blog just to dump all my stupid thoughts, feelings - mostly emotional, so weak-hearted ppl, stay away :P ; crazy and crazier dreams; and just my not-so-needed opinions about everything and life itself.

I'm not gonna introduce myself here, coz I'd prefer it if my identity remains anonymous. The reason would be that, I like to share my thoughts but at the same time I do not want to give anyone the chance to say that they really know me :D I know its really stupid, but am made that way (wiring problem :P). And I'd appreciate it, if my friends and followers and fans :P, do not on purpose or unintentionally mention it and blow my mask away :P (not that you'd not face life threatening consequences if u try annoying me :P)

My sincere thanks to all those friends who motivated me to make this blog. Finally after an year, they're deemed successful ! :P

P.S: I love using emoticons. Please bear with me :P